Please Realize Having Optimistic Expectations Is a Good Idea for Dating
For one, I couldn’t characterize myself as downright comfortable being bored with most men (who isn’t?) and not be lying. However, I’m not uncomfortable about it, either. I just suggest it on the blogosphere as an appetizing detail foreshadowing what I will shortly explain in grand style.
This time last week yours truly was walking the dog, Trisha, considering buying a membership to Dallas Personals site. As of this minute, I write to each of you as a surprisingly pleased member of the matchmaking service. For real, and I almost don’t believe it myself! I like it! If you know me at all, you may be wondering, “You totally owe me an explanation.”
So, I looked at these Great Expectations Reviews and can really get behind their approach. They’re for the serious singles who care enough to know dating doesn’t have to be so frivolous and stupid.
‘Cause I’d never been interested in what serial daters (ie: everyone I know) so aptly entitled “The Dating Game.” I faced it more than you know. Every night friends pester, “Are you two serious yet?” and “Please tell me you two are dating.”
“Baloney!” I say to them, and playfully so. “Take a look around, I’m not missing much.”
“Don’t be silly,” they deadpan. “How would you know, you haven’t seen Friday Night Magic in a year!”
Leave it to my sister (she’s the best) (hehe) Trisha Feldman. She offers rational thought to my mind to set me straight. Caring souls I depend on for fresh advice. No countering that, and I thank her for it.
Back to the point of this blog entry. As I picked from thousands of outfits (hah) and desirable, honest singles for my first singles event with Great Expectations, I realized something deep. For years, I hadn’t allowed myself any emotional great expectations for dating in the adventurous path of being human. It’s good to be single, especially if you take the opportunity to meet new people. Embracing your own great expectations makes a difference on a cynics social life.
–Monica Palmer
